There is a constant undermining of the Abolitionist movement, and sadly it often by groups and individuals who claim to want an end to the sex trade.
Only this must done without rattling too many cages, without appearing too radical or revolutionary.
One way this done is by the old way of divide and rule – in this case saying how we could maybe say there could good and bad forms of prostitution.
In this viewpoint, there is constant search for punters who are not too bad, and always the refrain that it only a small minority of men who consumed the prostituted.
In this viewpoint, indoors prostitution can be made OK if it perceived as small and independent.
In this viewpoint, child prostitution is terrible, but adult prostitution is chosen and therefore good.
In this viewpoint, must horrific trafficking is external, and often it is thought that internal trafficking is a myth.
Hell, this just a few examples of the rubbish spoken and written in order to undermined the courage and determination of the Abolitionist movement.
There is nothing new here, it always the same with radical ideals especially when associated with abolition.
See how it was claimed that house slaves were happy unlike the field slaves.
Divide and rule is always used to distract – with abolition and its followers it is used to distract from seeing the structures that need to be destroyed.
If we are to destroy the sex trade, we must stopped being distracted and having internal fights.
If we look away from the prize, the sex trade can only gain and laugh at us.
I refuse to allow the sex trade to have that power – as exited woman, I refuse to ever be ground into nothingness by their lies and hate.
So, if you claimed to be an ally to exited women and true Abolitionists, then stop preaching the lies that undermined our existence.
Do not look for good punters – they do not exist.
Be clear thinking, and know that any man who makes the choice to buy another human for his sexual greed – can never be framed as a good man.
Do not think he is good because you like him, because you are related to him, because his role in life means it is impossible that he could a sadist.
Do not say it only a few men who are punters, but think harder.
Think that most prostituted women have many punters consuming, and the vast majority of these punters are not regular.
Most prostituted women who be in the sex trade for more than seven years, have had hundreds if not thousands of punters consuming them.
How does it make sense that it is only a few punters, and that the violence is rare?
God, if you really listen to Exited women – you would see, feel and know that is a terrible myth.
Do not look at indoors prostitution, especially independent escorting, independent brothels or SOOBs as the good side of the sex trade.
Stop imaging there is real independence in these small-scale forms of prostitution, or there can ever be a form of prostitution that can made liberating for the prostituted, and free from violence.
Please remember that to buy another human to create her into sexual goods – that is an act of violence in and of itself.
Most prostitution is paid rape, nothing more and nothing less – no matter how it is labelled or where it is placed.
The myth that is SOOBs is that prostitute can have real control and full access to safety.
That is impossible when the whole structure of prostitution is built on Male violence and the degradation of the prostituted.
In that environment, the prostituted have no basic human rights – and cannot turn away a violent punter if he is determined to get his money’s worth.
The prostituted are never in control, but on occasions punters give them that illusion.
I feel fury – so I end for now.